Excellent advice, and simple, dear Positive-minded Guy with a Peaceful Heart. I needed to read this at this very moment. Proving once again that help comes at the right time - and in the right size! I went through a long illness (11 years) with a happy ending. No matter how bad things got, I still believed in my Happy Ending. And that belief got me to the right place for it to happen (an organ transplant that cured me). I found good things to fill my time when I wasn't able to work outside my home, and wrote two novels. I honestly never would have done that if I hadn't had that down time. We never know what will happen - except for change.
Thank you for the reminders.